Comments on: The Mirror of Love: Transform Your Relationships with Forgiveness!

By: Tia Johnson

Tia Johnson — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 20:24:25 +0000

When you said ‘forgiveness’ and ‘not my type’ I thought about a guest you had on the Buddha Lounge, the Dating Expert. She was telling a story about a friend of hers wanting a guy who was a number 15 on a scale of 1-10 and her friend was a number 6 or 7. I was thinking that you have to ‘be’ want you want and how can be attract that if we haven’t healed ourself and adjust ourselves to be the most spiritual person we can be?! Great article.

By: j

Wed, 17 Feb 2010 08:12:10 +0000

I totally agree with the TYPE cause i can say for myself , my type was the macho man with beard, they also came with a consequence those macho man also wanted to be all the woman man. So with having now a healthy relationship with trust and respect , i am so happy to have think a little outside the box and give a chance to the none my type. It came out great.

By: Kara

Kara — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 19:11:00 +0000

Thank you for this post, it is one that has benefitted me and will help many, many people. ( I was also just thinking of writing a post on forgiveness!)

I have one past significant (non-romantic) relationship in particular, where I think I am still harbouring anger and resentment.

If I am totally honest, I think I am hanging onto the anger because I felt totally powerless at the time, and I think I equate my anger with power.

Now that I am feeling more authentically powerful, I would like to forgive that person, as I think I’ve spent enough years feeding something that isn’t nourishing me.

Thank you also for the incredible download on forgiveness. Your voice is so healing.

Kara

By: Rebecca

Rebecca — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 14:49:51 +0000

Forgiveness can be tricky, especially when it was not explained to you. Most people believe forgiveness does condone what a person did to you. This is why there are so many “wounded” people in the world.

This really resonated with me, “…If you’re single, ask yourself if you have someone to forgive. What can you learn from your experience with them? Use your intuition on this. Maybe there were red flags that you didn’t want to see. But, you can vow to keep your eyes open for red flags now and trust your instincts. And when you see all the green flags, but ‘he’s just not your type’, ask yourself, how has choosing ‘your type’ worked out for you. If that’s the case, time to really reflect to see where ‘your type’ has gotten you thus far.” I can relate to this. I finally healed from an experience because I allowed myself to see the “red flags.” Whew! Better late than never. I’m paying attention to the “green flags,” but I’m taking it slow.

By: Barbara (Barb) Roe

Barbara (Barb) Roe — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 06:13:07 +0000

This hit right into my heart and soul. I just ended a short lived painful relationship with someone literally a couple of hours ago. He was a soul mate, all right, one to show me the way I need to grow and listen to Spirit’s heart whispers. I thank Spirit that at least I have grown enough to end it when I did, instead of waiting longer as I used to do. Now is the time to haul out the mp3 player and listen to Forgiveness. I downloaded it from your first website a long time ago. Bless you and keep you, you are an inspiration to us all.

Love,
Barb

By: Genie

Genie — Mon, 15 Feb 2010 18:02:44 +0000

Excellent Colette..Am Going to send *Looking in the Mirror* to everyone i know & for those who seek answers wil become enlightened by the LOVE majik of forgiveness, Wow including myself. Thanks so much Colette
L*L*L
Genie (L)

By: DougUp

DougUp — Mon, 15 Feb 2010 17:20:12 +0000

Incredible, Colette. Thank you. Love the blog with soundtrack as well!

By: Lynda O

Lynda O — Mon, 15 Feb 2010 17:15:47 +0000

As usual with your postings, this is very true and profound.

Speaking only for myself I would like to think I was already aware of what forgiveness really is and that I practice self forgiveness and that we need to do this daily or more often.

In reality, I often forget to forgive and even forget what it really is – in my busy life self often falls by the wayside so these little reminders are necessary and very welcome.

Thank you Collette.

Lynda O

By: Theresa

Theresa — Mon, 15 Feb 2010 17:12:46 +0000

Oh my…this hit direct to the heart. I am at a loss for words and ready to cry. I am going to send this to several people that I need to forgive and forgive myself in the process. Thank you.