7 Ways to Practice Gratitude!

Updated: November 1, 2022

The Thanksgiving season is here for all of my friends in the U.S. (we celebrated in Canada last month) – but no matter what part of the world you live in or what holidays you celebrate, it’s always a great time to practice gratitude

Beginning a gratitude practice to take you through the final months of the year is one of the absolute best ways to ensure you’ll have an amazing 2023. Even if your year has felt like a mixed bag, there is always something to be grateful for! 

Practicing gratitude doesn’t mean bypassing the hard stuff. It simply means telling the Universe that we see the good too. It’s about choosing the way we relate to our outer world and our physical reality. 

Practicing gratitude can not only help you attract more of the feelings and experiences you desire, it can actually change the chemistry of your brain! 

How to Practice Gratitude This Season

I think part of the beauty of a gratitude practice is its simplicity.

Gratitude is about being present, appreciative, and humble. It’s practicing an awareness of all of the things in our lives. It doesn’t require that things be perfect, it only requires tuning our hearts into the goodness that is already present in our lives. 

There are lots of ways to practice gratitude. You can choose more involved activities for gratitude, or you can choose very simple ways to fit your thankfulness into a busy time of year. 


Here are a few of my favorite ways to practice gratitude right now: 

1. Keep a Gratitude Journal 

This one might sound old school, but it’s popular for a reason! 

Writing something down helps our brains hold onto it. There’s a special kind of magic that comes from writing down the things you’re thankful for. Take it one step further and write down why you’re grateful for each thing.

2. Reframe The Tough Things 

If you’ve had a tough year, you’re dreading the holidays, or things just feel hard right now – it’s a PERFECT time to work on being grateful. 

Remember, there’s no need to ignore what’s hard. But are you able to get curious and discover any treasures or opportunities in the challenges? 

Challenges in a relationship might be giving you an opportunity for growth, long work days might mean expansion in your career, early mornings might mean more time with your sweet kids or pets. Try to find what feels genuinely good, even in the parts of your life that are stretching you. 

3. Feel It In Your Body 

It’s one thing to make a list of the things you’re thankful for, but it’s another thing to really feel that gratitude in your heart and body. 

To practice feeling gratitude in your body, try setting a timer for anywhere from 2-5 minutes. Close your eyes, place your hands over your heart if you’re able, and just focus on breathing and feeling your heartbeat. In your mind, just keep repeating “thank you” as you breathe and feel the gratitude in your heart.

No matter what gratitude practice you choose, remember to take a moment to truly feel in your heart how grateful you are. Let that good feeling permeate every part of you. 

4. Practice Gratitude In Advance

It’s just as important to be grateful for all of the good things that are on their way to you as the ones that are already here! 

Close your eyes and visualize the things you desire as if they have already happened. Let yourself feel all of the good feelings associated with those things now. You don’t have to wait for them to become true in the outer world to be grateful for them. 

When you hold this feeling of gratitude, it magically opens the floodgates of abundance.

5. Write Yourself a Love Letter 

ESPECIALLY if you’ve had a hard year, being grateful for yourself can be so very healing. 

Most of us spend way too much time with our inner critic. Let’s take the microphone away from that old friend for a while and list out all of the things you love about yourself. 

Looking at yourself with love can be hard. Get yourself primed for this transformative experience by listening to my “Love” meditation from my Remembering the Future Meditation album before writing. 

Now, write down all the things you like about yourself, from the way your nose crinkles when you laugh to the fact that you’ve never met a dog that didn’t immediately love you. Don’t be shy or modest. No one will see this but you! 

Own those special, quirky parts of yourself that make you, you! (If you struggle with self-love — which most of us do! — I suggest you do this at least once a month!)

6. Start And End Your Day With Gratitude

This is a great gratitude practice for those of us who are busy because it’s so simple. 

When you wake up in the morning, think of one thing you’re grateful for and feel it in your heart. When you lay down to go to sleep at night, do the same. 

To amplify the power of this gratitude practice, take a moment to write your reasons down each day in a special gratitude notebook or in your journal.

You’ll be amazed how much your outlook and energy can change if you do this for a few weeks. 

7. Share Your Gratitude With Others

How often do you take the time to thank others in your life? Everyone loves to be appreciated and it’s so easy to do! 

Set the intention to regularly send a handwritten note or thoughtful email to friends, family, and important people in your life. Let them know that you were just thinking of them and reflecting on how thankful you are to have them in your life and you wanted to let them know how much they’re appreciated. 

Regularly sharing that gratitude with others in your life will strengthen your relationships and inspire others to share their gratitude too!

Gratitude comes in many shapes and sizes

There’s no one right way to practice gratitude. The most important element of success is finding the one that fits into your lifestyle.

Any time you find yourself feeling down or just a little off, return to your gratitude practice. Making this a regular part of your daily routine can change your life and help you set the foundation for an amazing year ahead! 

22 Days of Gratitude

One of the things I’m consistently the most grateful for is my incredible community. And one of the ways I like to practice and express my gratitude is by giving back to all of you. It truly fills my heart! 

That’s why I’m holding a 22 Days of Gratitude Sale for the month of November. 

Over the next few weeks, I will be offering sales up to 75% off on my Oracle Cards, apps, guided meditations, courses, and store merchandise! During this sale, we’re also giving a portion of each of our sales to the Humane Society

If you’re looking for a great holiday gift or you want to treat yourself to something special, you can get all of the details here.

What are you grateful for? 

I’d love to hear from you! What are you most grateful for right now? Share with me in the comments. 


Showing 32 comments
  • Lisa

    I’m grateful for FORGIVENESS! It’s helped (and helping in my growth). Forgiveness is changing my life more and more everyday. I’m grateful I came across your website. Thank you.

  • Anonymous

    Hi Colette, thank you for sharing all of your beautiful gifts!
    I love being reminded today of what I am gratful for, all of the suggestions in your letter have been so helpful for me as often they have shifted my outlook from downward to quickly catching an upward draft. It has become a regular practice to take a few minutes each day to find the good in difficult situations and find meaning in the lessons learned and feel gratful for all of them. It is so encouraging with this practice of Graditude it open’s up a greater awareness of how spirit is always there for us. Sending blessings to all 🙏

    • Colette Baron-Reid

      I’m so happy that you appreciate this! so happy that you made your way to this blog! 💖

    • Helen

      I love being present to all the everyday happenings for which I am very thankful & full of gratitude. I also take this opportunity to express my gratitude for the wonderfulness of you Colette. 🦋🙏🎶💞🥳

  • Barbara Dodds

    Im grateful for all the wonderful people in my life (family and friends) , they have gotten me through some of the hardest times. So people DO make a difference.

    • Colette Baron-Reid

      I’m sure they’re all grateful to have you be a part of their lives as well 💞

  • Dominique

    I’m so grateful that I’m recovering from covid. 🙏🏻

    • Colette Baron-Reid

      sending you a big virtual hug and healing energies your way, Dominique! 💞

  • Geri

    My eldest sister. She is the Angel in our family.

  • Lucinda Martin

    I am grateful for your mentoring, messaging and loving attitude

  • Barb

    I’m grateful for you and your generosity of spirit and kindness!!!

  • Janise Witt

    i’m so grateful to you Colette for all the wonderful insights and when I was taking my hike this morning I was feeling a little Sad and when I came back before I did my meditation I looked at your 22 days of gratitude and I thought oh my God this is so perfect and I said this is absolutely the best and it’s actually what I’m going to write my next newsletter on and I’m just so thankful to you! And…I have so much to be grateful for! Love and blessings Janise

  • Melissa

    The major thing in life right now that I am most grateful for is God’s mercy and the power of prayer. He released the soul of my mother’s suffering body from this world recently and took her to her heaven to live in peace & joy forever. ❤️ 😇 🙏 😘

  • Judy Sidari

    I’m grateful for having my mom in my life for 66 years I’m sad you had to leave…

  • Anita

    I am thankful I read this today!! I will be honest I was going thru all my emails and u subscribing to many of them. However, I started reading and thought of my! I do love the way my nose crinkles lol AND I just compared myself to snow white because all my neighbors dogs LOVEEE me lol Thank you so much! I am starting my gratitude journal tonight! Many blessings to you!

  • Line Lamothe

    Hi Colette,
    This is a beautiful reminder as I have just recently returned to my daily gratitude practice of writing in a journal. I love how you take a few minutes to really feel the gratitude. I will definitely be including that in my daily practice. And thank you for sharing your spirit, light and love ❤️

  • Mandy

    💕💜 I’m grateful for my beautiful family , I’m grateful for our health 💕💜 I’m also grateful for all the resources I have within my reach , like your website, that help guide me on my path 💕💜 ~ Mandy 💕

  • Geo

    I always ask our son in the evening to tell me what he is grateful for and I share what I am grateful for. Gratitude starts in the childhood. Right?

  • Stephanie

    I am grateful for my sister, for being there when I need her, and opening me to the spirit world from a young age. I am grateful for knowing that when I teach people with their animals, that the help they receive is coming through me, not from me, and I love that so much. I feel deeply connected to the universe and our planet. I am grateful for the angels and guides in my life, for them trying to help me along my way. I am grateful that I try my best to heed their messages. I am grateful for people like you, sharing your story, to help all of us. Thank you!

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